вторник, 13 марта 2012 г.

For my friends))))

Recently i've read a story which made me think, that very often i do things,that weren't worth doing. Now i understand that could hurt my dear people.Because they aren't guilty of my terrible character. Now i'd like to say :Please forgive me if I have ever left a hole in your fence!


I want to offer you to read this story too!!!!!!!


  
There once was a little boy who had a bad temper.  His Father gave him
a bag of nails and told him that every time he lost his temper, he must
hammer a nail into the back of the fence.  The first day the boy had
driven 37 nails into the fence.  Over the next few weeks, as he learned
to control his anger, the number of nails hammered daily gradually
dwindled down.  He discovered it was easier to hold his temper than to
drive those nails into the fence.
Finally the day came when the boy didn't lose his temper at all. He
told his father about it and the father suggested that the boy now pull out
one nail for each day that he was able to hold his temper.

The days passed and the young boy was finally able to tell his father
that all the nails were gone.  The father took his son by the hand and led
him to the fence.  He said, "You  have done well, my son, but look at the
holes in the fence.  The fence will never be the same.  When you say
things in anger, they leave a scar just like this one.  You can put
a knife in a man and draw it out.  It won't matter how  many times you
say I'm sorry, the wound is still there."
A verbal wound is as bad as a physical one.  Friends are very rare
jewels, indeed!  They make you smile and encourage you to succeed.  They
lend an ear, they share words of praise and they always want to open
their hearts  to us."
 
 
 
 

 so what do you think about it?did you find it useful?

2 комментария:

  1. it's very instructive and useful)) I think we should heed the words of boy's dad

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  2. Its a very interesting and instructive story))I will try to restrain my anger in order to protect my relatives and friends)))

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